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Stuck Between Moving and Staying? These 3 Questions Can Help You Decide

Chris Kostopoulos

A life-long Boston native, Chris is the owner and CEO of the Chris Kostopoulos Group, a team that he formed after he spent sixteen years helping ...

A life-long Boston native, Chris is the owner and CEO of the Chris Kostopoulos Group, a team that he formed after he spent sixteen years helping ...

Jun 24 1 minutes read

If you’re a homeowner in Massachusetts with a low mortgage rate, you’ve probably felt a bit stuck lately. Maybe you’ve thought about making a move—whether that’s finding a bigger space, relocating to a different town, or finally settling into a home that feels just right. But then the reality of today’s interest rates hits, and suddenly, that idea gets pushed aside.

This scenario is playing out for many homeowners across the state. Millions locked in at historically low rates in 2020 or 2021 are now hesitant to let go of what seems like a fantastic deal—even if their current home no longer meets their needs.

This phenomenon is known as the “lock-in effect,” and it’s a significant factor in the current market. However, it doesn’t mean you’re out of options. If you’ve been on the fence, unsure whether to stay or go, consider these three questions to help you gain clarity and make a decision you feel confident about.

Is your current home still working for your life—or just your loan?

This is perhaps the most crucial question to ponder. When you look beyond the interest rate, beyond the numbers and spreadsheets, is your home still supporting your day-to-day life?

Maybe what once felt spacious now feels cramped, or perhaps your home feels too large and quiet since the kids moved out. Your needs may have changed—maybe you’re working from home more often, caring for aging parents, or you’ve welcomed a new family member. Or maybe you’ve simply outgrown the space emotionally. What used to feel like a dream home now feels like a never-ending to-do list.

It’s easy to set those feelings aside and focus solely on your current rate. But when your home no longer fits your lifestyle, it’s essential to consider what it’s costing you to stay—not just financially, but emotionally, mentally, and physically. The right home doesn’t have to be perfect, but it should make your daily life easier, not harder.

What would a move really cost you—and what might it make possible?

There’s no denying that interest rates are higher than they were a few years ago. However, that doesn’t automatically mean moving isn’t financially feasible. What matters is how the overall picture looks for you.

Many homeowners in Massachusetts are sitting on substantial levels of equity. As of early 2024, the average mortgage-holding homeowner in the U.S. holds approximately $299,000 in equity, according to ICE’s Mortgage Monitor report. That’s an increase from $274,000 at the end of 2022 and a significant rise from $182,000 at the beginning of the pandemic, based on CoreLogic’s Homeowner Equity Insights report.

This means many homeowners are sitting on considerable equity, which could serve as your down payment on a new home. It could reduce the amount you need to borrow, lower your monthly payment, or help you avoid private mortgage insurance.

And let’s not forget the potential lifestyle benefits a move could bring. Perhaps it would bring you closer to family, provide your kids with access to better schools, or offer that home office or outdoor space you’ve been longing for. Maybe it means downsizing and freeing up more cash each month or finally settling in a neighborhood where you feel more at home.

Moving isn’t just a financial decision; it’s a quality-of-life choice. When you weigh both the gains and the costs, you might find that the numbers aren’t as one-sided as they initially seem.

If you stay, are you staying intentionally—or just avoiding a hard choice?

It’s perfectly fine to choose to stay where you are. In fact, for some people, that’s absolutely the right decision. But here’s the catch: it should be a choice, not a default.

Ask yourself: If I decide to stay for the next three to five years, what would I need to change or invest in to make this home truly work for me? Would I renovate the kitchen that’s no longer functional? Convert the spare room into a proper office? Redesign the backyard so it actually gets used?

Staying doesn’t have to mean settling. Sometimes, making peace with your current home involves creating a plan to improve it—whether through small updates, strategic renovations, or simply adjusting how you use your space.

However, staying without a plan can lead to years of quiet frustration. In many cases, those small compromises can add up to something more expensive than moving would have been.

Final Thoughts

Feeling “stuck” can be frustrating. But the good news is, you’re not as trapped as you might think. You’re simply facing a decision that deserves careful consideration.

You don’t need to have all the answers right away. But asking the right questions—about your lifestyle, your goals, and your finances—can help you find clarity. Whether you decide to stay or go, the goal isn’t to time the market perfectly. It’s about making a move that supports your life and your future.

If you’re uncertain about what comes next, let’s talk it through. We’ll help you weigh the pros and cons, look at real numbers, and explore what’s possible. This isn’t about pressuring you into a sale; it’s about giving you the clarity and confidence you need to move forward in the direction that’s right for you.

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